One of the perks of being a University Professor is that you know a lot of people with advanced degrees. Masters. Doctorates. About a month ago, I sent a link to this website to several friends with Doctorates in Psychology or Psychiatry. I asked them to read through the site and give me their opinions.
To my surprise, they were all in complete agreement. They all came to the same conclusion, independently of each other. That conclusion? That Noel Bednaz is perfectly sane, but a classic Sociopath. She's incapable of feeling empathy, guilt or remorse, and as a defense mechanism, blames her victims. She honestly believes that other people cause her to do what she does, and therefore its they who are guilty, not her. Further, if only they would stop doing the things that drive her to do what she does, her actions would cease.
In a way, it makes me feel sorry for her - but not as sorry as I feel for her many victims.
Sociopaths eventually find themselves in prison or worse, and still continue to blame others. But at least they can't continue internet stalking while locked up. Keep documenting and most of all call her parole officer as often as you can until something gets done.
ReplyDeleteNow that the laws are catching up to the things she does it's just a matter of time. When all this started laws against harassment, libel and the like didn't extend to the internet. That's all changing now.
ReplyDeleteI am really glad you started this blog Dennis...I agree, we must contact her probation officer often, and even the Westfield Police Department handling this case...
ReplyDeleteIt would be helpful if you posted a contact number for her probation officer...or even an email address so we could forward her offensive comments....
There's contact info on the website for Det. Lt. David Ragazzini, who is quite aware of her behavior. Any criminal activity should be reported to him, just as any threatening email (or any other violation of ToS) should be sent to abuse@ (email provider). Her ISP information can be found here.
ReplyDeleteNow, if you want to reach me you just did. If you have evidence of Noel's illegal/harassing activities and want to send it to me, just say the word. When you left your comment, you gave me your email address. I do it that way because when I had a contact form on the website Noel spammed the hell out of it, sometimes with idiotic messages being sent more than 1000 times from her infamous fake emailer.